Here's a challenge

In becoming you there are small steps you can take to get there.  Try little successes. Make a literal or mental list and work towards them.  For example, challenge yourself to read a book a month, exercise for 30 minutes at least five days a week, desist from some bad habit such as nail biting,  gossiping.  For every day you succeed, congratulate yourself. If you fall, pick yourself up and go again!  Becoming you is not a one time accomplishment but little things all put together to make you complete!